June 27, 2019
Why are people exchanging lewd pictures of each other? In the age of online dating, cellphones and texting a guy can show you his wee-wee from the comforts of his own home while you are across town having dinner with your parents. Without ever having met in person. Worse yet, your husband is exchanging lewd pictures with a woman while you are asleep next to him. Oh vey!
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June 20, 2019
Nathan Carman is thought to be “…either the unluckiest person or a murderer.” This is the story of a young man that lost his mother at sea when his boat sank while on a fishing excursion in fierce waters. He was rescued but neither his mother or any trace of his boat have ever been recovered.
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I am adding a segment to the podcast that is going to offer up some Reality TV hububaloo. I am starting off with Season 9 of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills to put puppy gate to rest once and for all! It really has gone too far although I am happy for Lisa to stand her ground and move onto larger and better things. Enjoy!
My first celebrity crush was Larry Hagman as Major Nelson on I Dream of Jeannie! I went on to Donny Osmond, David Cassidy, Scott Baio, Shaun Cassidy, Andy Gibb, Robby Benson and probably several others. What wasn’t to love about the 1970’s?
Some people take their crushes to an obsession and display extremely disturbing behaviors. Next thing they fall into some form of psychosis they have trouble snapping out of and stalk celebrities. Then you have a whole other type of person that goes to extremes by enlisting in multiple surgeries because they want to look like a particular celebrity.
On a lighter note, celebrities have been known to marry fans. Some spouses are not in the entertainment industry at all so we seldom hear or see them in the news bits. It would take a great deal of confidence to be able to accept the fandom and attention their spouses receive.
Lana Turner was one of Hollywood’s most sought after actresses from the 1930’s for 50 years. 8 marriages and 1 mobster jealous boyfriend later a scandal occurred when someone wound up dead.
All on this weeks episode, we spill it all. Don’t miss out!!
Making friendships as an adult (over the age of 40 especially) can be a bit tricky. This week’s episode is about making friends and overcoming our vulnerabilities in the process. Prioritizing friendships and being a good friend is the exchange for having a good friend. It can feel similar and just as complicated when finding a soulmate!
While raising children, my friends were frequently chosen by them connecting me with mom’s of their friends, hence making it very easy for me. I still have some of those friends. One of them in particular is one of my nearest and dearest friends although our daughter’s drifted apart by 9th grade. Meeting people at work is great however with the growing population of people working from home it’s best to have a plan B. Do things you enjoy so you are surrounded by people that share that common interest or activity.
Try to be self aware so you are not coming on too strong or seeming so desperate. This is what I mean by it being similar to finding a soulmate. Once we are older and wiser, we tend to be more selective of the company we keep. It can be for the reason that we have been hurt in the past while engaged in toxic friendships or simply that we need to let our inner extrovert out once in a while.
Most of us over 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 and beyond don’t feel like we have to collect friends or be the most popular person in town. Some people do, I am generalizing. Whatever your position is at this time in your life I hope you are flourishing with genuine, meaningful friendships. I have a few ideas if you are in the process of seeking out your people.
Friendships are often times our greatest asset. Value them as such because studies show people with strong friendships live longer. How in the world “they” know that is beyond me? Give it a whirl! Cheers!!
